This blog was inspired from a reflection on the infamous phrase, “Am I in New York and single or am I single because I am in new york?” I figured I would write a book on relationships, but then again I am into research and figured in this Google driven highly techy world I would collect some first hand data by developing a reader base and putting in my hours before preaching about “what are the necessary ingredients to making a healthy relationship!”. Because as Malcolm Gladwell in his book ‘Outlier’ said in order to be an expert at anything one must put in 10,000 hours at it. And since I consider myself no expert in relationships, but personally having been through enough WHAT NOT TO DO’s, and being surrounded by friends who have been through plethora of them (good, bad AND the ugly ones) and learning from their experiences; I am taking the liberty to share my opinions and words of wisdom!!
I look forward to sharing this journey with my readers so feel free to share your HONEST experiences so together we can strive to assemble a community of readers and possibly a generation of minds who can share the same values of wanting or striving for a relationship that “brings out the best version of themselves that they never knew existed”……especially in a era where according to enrichment journal on the divorce rates in America:
The divorce rate in America for first marriage is 41%
The divorce rate in America for second marriage is 60%
The divorce rate in America for third marriage is 73%.
Relationships tends to be an integral part of our human make up, as men usually say, “women we can’t live with them and we can’t live without them“. So why is it that the divorce rates are so high? What do you look for and what have you learned?
Living in New York, I hear people in their 30′s living in Manhattan wanting the same things when it comes to finding “The One” (Guys want a girl they can take home to their folks and girls want guys that sweep them off their feet). An insight into what works and what doesn’t…so stay tuned and express yourself!! B
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I look forward to sharing this journey with my readers so feel free to share your HONEST experiences so together we can strive to assemble a community of readers and possibly a generation of minds who can share the same values of wanting or striving for a relationship that “brings out the best version of themselves that they never knew existed”……especially in a era where according to enrichment journal on the divorce rates in America:
The divorce rate in America for first marriage is 41%
The divorce rate in America for second marriage is 60%
The divorce rate in America for third marriage is 73%.
Relationships tends to be an integral part of our human make up, as men usually say, “women we can’t live with them and we can’t live without them“. So why is it that the divorce rates are so high? What do you look for and what have you learned?
Living in New York, I hear people in their 30′s living in Manhattan wanting the same things when it comes to finding “The One” (Guys want a girl they can take home to their folks and girls want guys that sweep them off their feet). An insight into what works and what doesn’t…so stay tuned and express yourself!! B
Become a FOLLOWER or SUBSCRIBE (click under "Subscribe To - Posts") to get weekly updates and follow new posts. Or click the Key Ingredients and Topics of Discussion buttons on top to post your opinions. Feel free to spread the word via email, social network sites, RSS feeds or other virtual portal if you like what you read so far. Thank you for commenting!!
